My apologies to all confused. I am competing in someone else's Gi, because my pink gracie barra Gi was not compliant with the rules and I was told to...well, change. Another girl, Danielle, just took off her Gi and gave it to me. Fortunately, she was in another division so I didn't have to fight her. I was very impressed by her kind gesture and sportsmanship. ...And I didn't mean to make my opponent cry...I think the ref was a little late to the party, as she was clearly tapping for a while.